The Queenship of the Blessed Virgin Mary – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Podcast

The Queenship of the Blessed Virgin Mary – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff

Msgr. John Esseff John Esseff and Kris McGregor reflect on the queenship of Mary, drawing from stories of apparitions and her motherly role in salvation history. Mary’s title as queen is not tied to worldly grandeur but to her humility, purity, and tender care. Msgr. Esseff highlights how Mary appeared to the lowly—Juan Diego at Guadalupe, children at Fatima, Bernadette at Lourdes—always offering comfort, healing, and intercession. Her queenship flows from her role as the Mother of God, and her love extends universally, desiring to bring every person closer to Christ. Her presence in sacramentals like the Miraculous Medal continues to be a source of grace and healing for those who turn to her in need.

Mary’s humility as the key to her victory over Satan—being the “heel” that crushes the serpent’s head. Esseff ties this to Jesus’ teaching that the last shall be first, and he invites reflection on how God’s generosity will surprise us in heaven, welcoming even those we might least expect. Mary’s queenship, united with Christ the Good Shepherd, is shown in her concern for the lost, sick, and forgotten. The episode concludes with a call to childlike trust: to become small, dependent, and open to God’s love, learning from Mary’s example of humility and her constant readiness to care for those in need.


Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions

  1. How does Mary’s humility as the “heel” crushing the serpent challenge my own understanding of strength and greatness?
  2. In what ways do I turn to Mary as a mother when I am in need of comfort, healing, or guidance?
  3. What can I learn from Mary’s appearances at Guadalupe, Lourdes, and Fatima about God’s love for the poor, the sick, and children?
  4. How do I respond to Christ’s teaching that “the last shall be first” in my daily life and relationships?
  5. Do I approach God with childlike trust, allowing myself to be cared for as a son or daughter?
  6. How can I imitate Mary’s example of going “in haste” to serve others, as she did for Elizabeth?
  7. What areas of my life most need Mary’s intercession and the healing power of her Son today?
  8. How does the reality of God’s generosity in welcoming the unexpected into heaven challenge my attitude toward others?


Msgr. John A. Esseff is a Roman Catholic priest in the Diocese of Scranton.  Msgr. Esseff served as a retreat director and confessor to Saint Teresa of Calcutta.  He continues to offer direction and retreats for the sisters of the Missionaries of Charity.  Msgr. Esseff encountered St. Padre Pio, who would become a spiritual father to him.  He has lived in areas around the world, serving in the Pontifical missions, a Catholic organization established by Pope St. John Paul II to bring the Good News to the world, especially to the poor. He continues to serve as a retreat leader and director to bishops, priests and sisters and seminarians, and other religious leaders .