SD8 - Confronting Desolation with Faith - Spiritual Desolation: Be Aware, Understand, Take Action with Fr. Timothy Gallagher

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Confronting Desolation with Faith – Spiritual Desolation: Be Aware, Understand, Take Action with Fr. Timothy Gallagher

Fr. Timothy Gallagher continues exploring St. Ignatius of Loyola’s teaching on spiritual desolation by distinguishing it from the cross. Using various examples, he illustrates that the cross refers to life’s trials—illness, family troubles, or hardship—that, when carried faithfully with Christ, lead to growth and peace. Spiritual desolation, however, consists of discouragement, loss of spiritual energy, or a sense of distance from God that originates from the enemy. While we grow by embracing the cross, we grow by resisting spiritual desolation. God never asks us to endure spiritual desolation passively but to actively reject it through prayer, perseverance, and trust.

Fr. Gallagher also describes several “qualities” of spiritual desolation. It lies by disguising itself as one’s spiritual identity (“you are not a true disciple”), provoking shame, isolation, or a false sense that something is deeply wrong within us. It can distort the past and future—convincing us that darkness has always been and always will be—and even whisper that failure is permanent. Recognizing these as lies brings freedom. He explains that self-knowledge grounded in God’s love helps dismantle these illusions, and caring for one’s emotional or physical health can limit their power. True self-understanding means knowing we are beloved sons and daughters of the Father. Spiritual maturity brings integration and peace to the whole person—spiritually, emotionally, and physically—allowing one to carry the cross with joy, like St. Ignatius himself, “a tiny Spaniard, a bit lame, with joyful eyes.”

Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions:

How can I discern whether I am carrying a cross with Christ or experiencing spiritual desolation that needs to be resisted?
In what ways might I have mistaken discouragement or dryness in prayer as part of my spiritual identity?
When I feel distant from God, how can I actively turn to Him rather than passively accept the heaviness?
What lies or negative self-beliefs tend to surface during moments of spiritual desolation?
How can I remind myself of my true identity as a beloved son or daughter of the Heavenly Father?
Are there emotional or physical vulnerabilities in my life that might open the door to spiritual desolation?
How might I support others who are experiencing discouragement or isolation in their faith?
What spiritual “tools” or Ignatian practices help me most when I notice desolation taking hold?
How can I cultivate gratitude for the crosses in my life that lead me closer to Christ?
In what concrete ways can I strengthen my trust that Good Friday always leads to Easter Sunday?

From Setting the Captives Free: Personal Reflections on Ignatian Discernment of Spirits:

“Through the years, as I have studied and taught these rules, received the sharing of many, and experienced the rules personally,
I have noted various qualities of spiritual desolation. I will share and discuss them here:

A Sense of Irreparable Disaster

If it is strong enough, spiritual desolation may bring a sense of irreparable disaster. Its message is this: “Things are going badly for you. You are in a bad way spiritually, and things will continue to go badly. It’s all over. The harm can’t be undone. Even if it could, you won’t take the necessary steps. You won’t change. Don’t think it’s ever going to be different.”This is simply one more lie of the enemy.

Spiritual Desolation Presents Itself as Our Spiritual Identity

This quality of spiritual desolation touches the heart of its burden. If we believe the lie that equates our experience of spiritual desolation with our spiritual identity, the desolation will grow very heavy.

There Is No Shame in Experiencing Spiritual Desolation

This point—that there is no shame in experiencing spiritual desolation—cannot be repeated too often. When I present the rules, I repeat it many times. No one has yet told me that I say it too often!”

Father Timothy M. Gallagher, O.M.V., was ordained in 1979 as a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary, a religious community dedicated to retreats and spiritual formation according to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Fr. Gallagher is featured on the EWTN series “Living the Discerning Life: The Spiritual Teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola”. For more information on how to obtain copies of Fr. Gallaghers’s various books and audio which are available for purchase, please visit his website: frtimothygallagher.org