Conference 5 – Hope in Difficult Times: with Sts. Therese, Louis, and Zelie and Their Family with Fr. Timothy Gallagher O.M.V.
In this fifth conference, Fr. Timothy Gallagher explores the deep love, courage, and persistence of St. Zélie Martin in her struggles with her daughter Léonie’s challenges and a disturbing case of child mistreatment. Zélie tries yet another approach to educate Léonie, placing her with two former nuns who prove to be abusive not only to Léonie but especially to a neglected young girl in their care. She intervenes with fierce maternal determination, ultimately rescuing the child and exposing the women’s deceit, even involving the police—an unprecedented move for her. Her actions show the depth of her charity and moral conviction, as well as the cost of standing up for what is right in the face of injustice.
Fr. Gallagher also reflects on St. Zélie’s letters expressing her love for her children, her affection for extended family, and her commitment to honoring Sunday observance. Through these letters, her intense compassion and self-sacrificing nature shine, especially as she supports strangers, comforts her daughters, and shows heroic dedication even in physical exhaustion. He connects her spirit of loving service to the example of Christ and shows how her daily acts of kindness echo through the lives of her children—especially St. Thérèse, whose “Little Way” of love and sacrifice mirrors her mother’s hidden holiness.
Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
- When faced with repeated failures or disappointments in caring for someone, do I remain persistent in love as Zélie did with Léonie?
- How do I respond when I witness injustice or abuse—am I willing to act, even at personal cost?
- In what ways do I practice charity toward strangers, especially those in need or distress?
- Do I honor the Lord’s Day with reverence, and how might I grow in that devotion like Louis and Zélie?
- How do I handle moments when others reject or misunderstand my intentions for doing good?
- Am I open to the daily opportunities God gives me to show love, even in small, hidden ways?
- Do I ever resist receiving help or affection from others, and what does that reveal about my heart?
- How does my own suffering affect my ability to trust God’s timing and providence?
- When I read about the saints or holy lives, do I let their example shape my daily actions?
- In moments of discouragement, do I remember that God can use even my smallest acts of love for His greater purpose?
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Fr. Gallagher obtained his doctorate in 1983 from Gregorian University. He has taught (St. John’s Seminary, Brighton, MA; Our Lady of Grace Seminary Residence, Boston, MA), assisted in formation work for twelve years, and served two terms as provincial in his own community. He has dedicated many years to an extensive ministry of retreats, spiritual direction, and teaching about the spiritual life. Fr. Gallagher is the author of six books (Crossroad) on the spiritual teaching of St. Ignatius of Loyola.
